The One

One hot topic that surrounds me recently was basically "The One". What do I mean? As people grow older, who will be the one to be your gf? At a later stage, who will be one that will accompany you for the rest of your life? Though many a times, we would like to have the companionship of someone to show care and concern to us. Have we really give some serious thoughts to the many issues that come with another person in our lives.
In the beginning, it might be easy for a guy to compromise his ways of living his life for the sake of his gf i.e. shopping when he dun like to shop, doing things that he dislikes.....etc. But as times passes by, the romance would fade away and leaving only behind traces of hurts & pains that needs time to heal. Sometimes it would be better for two to remain as friends rather than going into a relationship when both are not ready or prepared to accept one another as they are. At least, they can still be friends instead of becoming enemies.
At a later stage, people would talk about marriage. Talk is forever cheap but the price of reality is going to be very expensive. If the couple do not give really serious considerations into the new challenges ahead, chances are that the relationship will end up bitter and sour in the end.
Therefore, I would feel that unless a man is mature and sensible enough, it may be better for him to remain single. (can save a bit at the same time!!) Why is it that as we grow 'older', going into a relationship also need to plan so much ah? (sigh!!) No choice lah, standard of living is getting higher and higher in S'pore mah...haha!! Last but not least, I recently started to envy Adam and Eve. Reason being very simple, they do not have to think who's the one for them. (think abt it!!)